I'm sorry to hear about your lost. Time like this we need to have our family and friends to comfort us. But the greatest comforter is God. "2 Corinthians 1:3 Praised be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of tender mercies and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our trials so that we may be able to comfort others in any sort of trial with the comfort that we receive from God."